PINATA VIOLENCE

A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. Luke 6:45

I grew up in a proper Latino household:  a comal was always on the stove, the question was never “white or wheat” but “corn or flour,” our detergent didn’t come in a box but in a bag that said “Ariel,” and birthdays weren’t “birthdays” without a piñata!  Your childhood isn’t complete without having a scar, preferably on your face somewhere, from being a little too zealous for candy before the bat swinging was done (mine’s on my lip).

I was at a Spongebob themed birthday party several years back.  So guess what piñata came out?  Spongebob, of course!  Child after child took turns taking swings at this beloved character.  Then it hit me:  Who came up with this idea?  Why do we choose our favorite character to beat the stuffing out of for our birthdays?  Shouldn’t it be a character we don’t like?  Why not devil piñatas or Taliban piñatas or spider piñatas?  Who likes spiders?  That would make more sense.  But no!  We find Olaf or Spiderman and we want to gather our friends around and take swing after swing at him.  Each of us taking a shot until he’s been torn apart.

That’s so like gossip, right?  Gather friends together to take turns tearing apart someone else’s character until there is nothing left. Maligning their motives, sharing “what I’ve heard,” and throwing a bit of exaggeration for effect.

In James 3, James talks about the trouble our tongue gets us in.  He describes that we have a wild animal living with us, our tongue, that’s untamable and unstoppable.  He says our tongue is like living with a pyromaniac who’s constantly setting things on fire that you can't reason with.  Like a rudder it’s steering our lives and shaping our future.

That’s all sounds hopeless.  If we can’t control it then what do we do?  I had heard a preacher talk on this subject recently and he said this:  If you were living with a wild, untameable animal, (let’s say they’ve moved in with you) what would your priority be?  Survival, safety, or simply put:  trying not making it mad.  You make it mad and it will just respond to its environment.  Your tongue is a wild animal that’s simply responding to its environment.  Or as Jesus put it: A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. 

By changing what you put into your heart, you’ll change what you get out of it.

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